Quick Answer
The safest way to clean delicate gemstones like pearls, opals, emeralds, turquoise, coral, amber, and other porous or treated stones, is with a gentle, pH-balanced approach using lukewarm water and a soft cloth or jewelry-specific cleanser. Almost everything else commonly used to clean jewelry can permanently damage delicate stones: ammonia-based cleaners, ultrasonic machines, steam cleaners, harsh chemicals, abrasives, alcohol, and prolonged soaking.
Most jewelry cleaners on the market are formulated for diamonds and hard metals. They are not safe for delicate gemstones, which is why most products carry "do not use on pearls, opals, or treated stones" warnings. The exception is jewelry-specific cleansers like Shinery Jewelry Wash® - designed to be safe across the full range of fine jewelry, including the delicate stones most cleaners can't touch.
Why Delicate Gemstones Need Different Care
Most jewelry-care advice online is written with diamonds in mind. Diamonds sit at 10 on the Mohs hardness scale, are chemically inert, and tolerate almost any cleaning method short of extreme physical impact. That's why the standard cleaning kit, ammonia soaks, ultrasonic machines, harsh detergents — exists. It was designed for the stone that can survive it.
Delicate gemstones are an entirely different category. Tiffany & Co. publishes a specific list of stones that require special care: amethyst, emerald, kunzite, opal, pearl, peridot, tanzanite, and tourmaline, noting that all are "very delicate and easily abraded." Pearls rank 2.5 to 4.5 on the Mohs scale. Opals rank 5.5 to 6.5. Emeralds, while structurally harder at 7.5 to 8, are heavily included and almost always treated with oil that aggressive cleaning will strip out. Turquoise is porous and easily discolored by chemical exposure. Coral and amber are organic materials with their own vulnerabilities.
What works for diamonds will damage these stones, sometimes permanently. The cleaning method that brought your engagement ring back to brilliance can dull your grandmother's pearls in a single use, crack an opal through thermal shock, or strip the treatment from an emerald that took a gemologist hours to enhance. This is why the safest approach to delicate gemstone care is fundamentally different: gentler, more frequent, and built around prevention rather than restoration.